How To Win Your Girlfriend Back If You’ve Been A Jerk
If you’re relationship ended because you were neglecting you’re girlfriend or being a jerk, then this article is for you because we are going to go over some effective ways to win your girlfriend back. Obviously different situations warrant different remedies, but try these suggestions out and see they work for you.
How To Win Your Girlfriend Back
Buy Her Roses
This may sound cliche, but the truth is nobody does this stuff anymore. Women love flowers, or at least the romantic symbolism of flowers. If you know what is her favorite type is, it will make a best impact. If not, then roses are always the safe bet. Surprising her with flowers will show her that you appreciate her. If you want to win your girlfriend back, this should be ne of the first things you try.
Send Her A Gift of Nostalgia
This is the next best technique and if you can do this, it will be more impactful than flowers. What I mean by a gift of nostalgia is to send her something that reminds her of a good time you had. It is best if it is something that was insignificant. Something that she might even have to think about to “get it” when you send it to her.
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For example, say when you guys first started dating, you guys had a big laugh over how you accidentally knocked over a bunch of jellybeans in the candy store. You could send her her a small box of jelly beans with a note saying “I’m sorry”. Or say you once surprised her for her birthday by taking her to her favorite show and you kept the tickets. You could send the ticket stubs over with a similar note.
This is so powerful because it not only shows that you appreciate her, but also that you really paid attention to her even if you forgot to show it that often.
Write Her A Letter
I think this is by far the best technique to win your girlfriend back and her forgiveness. It can be combined with the gift of nostalgia, but even by itself it is extremely powerful. It may sound so cliche too, but again its not. First of all women love stuff like this! Thanks to hollywood and sappy novels, women are conditioned to associate deep romantic feelings with receiving love letters from a man.
Secondly, the truth is that people rarely write letters anymore. In the past, people had to spend time and think about what they are going to write in each letter because it may be the only correspondence with the other person for months and they wanted to put the write words in it. Not today. Everything is instant. One click text messages, emails, facebook messages, tweets, blurbs, and blog posts. As a result, people’s communication have lost its sensitivity. Nobody puts much thought into their messages anymore.
Therefore if you really sit down and take the time explain your honest feelings on paper, it will make a huge impact on your ex. You will show that you are different, that you appreciate her, that you are honest, and you are a real romantic.
The common trait between all three of these tactics is that they show that you care and that you have a sensitive side. If you have been a jerk or neglecting your girlfriend, showing that you really pay attention and think about her is definitely the way to go to win her back. While you can use all of them, just be careful not to come off as desperate. Thats the worst thing you can ever do when trying to win your girlfriend back. It will actually push them away further! So calibrate it out. Use what you need, but do what works.